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Learning to Live Outside the Box - The Meditation/Self Esteem Link
Most of us are no strangers to meditation even if the extent of practice is five minutes at the end of a yoga class. The benefits of meditation can still be attained; a quieter mind, more relaxed state of being, even if just for the moment. But what if these moments of bliss could last longer? What if meditation was a self-esteem booster as well? Think about it. We all live inside a small dimension of delusion at least some of the time. Every one of us has that little pre-recorded gem of discouragement that always seems to show up at the most inopportune times. We define ourselves by what others think of us, how others see us. The power to change how we see ourselves and the negative thought patterns we are overwhelmed with is already there inside us. We hold the key to our potential. We need to know who we truly are in order to take charge of our lives. We need a purpose and intent instead of just moving through life reacting to people and events unconsciously. But how do we hear the voice of our authentic selves over all the other chatter that goes on in our heads? This is where meditation steps in. The goal of meditation is to acquire stillness, not necessarily silence. Thoughts will come up. It is what we do with them that makes the difference. We want to acknowledge their presence and instead of fighting them, gently guide them toward peacefulness. Be creative with where these thoughts go. This is the ground work for new thinking patterns. Maybe envision a familiar place rediscovering the feelings associated with it, or make one up. By becoming more aware of thoughts and feelings we begin to create new commentary in our minds. This awareness is what helps us move through blocks, fears, low self-esteem and allows us to build a trust in our inner wisdom. Albert Einstein said “ Problems cannot be solved at the same level of awareness that created them” so we must become more in tune with what we need, more aware of what our authentic self wants. We need to acquire a deep acceptance of our life and ourselves right now, as we are. Contentment is the easiest path toward our true nature. This does not mean we shouldn’t work toward a higher goal. It simple means to recognize it is a journey. Be content, not satisfied. When content, our actions are driven by love and we allow ourselves to open up and let love radiate through us instead of being driven by fear .We always find what we are looking for so if we see the negative in everything, that is exactly what we get. Look for the positive. It is all in the perspective. Here is a technique to bring awareness to your thoughts throughout the course of the day. Periodically check in, see where your thoughts are going. Whenever they turn negative in any way, change the direction. A teacher of mine had a great reminder for this. If you had to pay a dollar for every thought, you would spend your money wisely buying happy thoughts instead of angry ones. During idle thinking times add whatever it is you need, patience, peace of mind. Repeat positive affirmations to yourself. This can also be done in meditation. Keep in mind an affirmation is always stated as if it is already so. Even if your patience is at an all time low today, say ‘I am a patient person’ over and over to yourself. If you continue to say it, eventually it will be true. Trust your inner wisdom. Allow yourself to be who you truly are. Self-acceptance is the key to becoming that confident powerful being just waiting to shine through. Tear down the walls of confinement and let that authentic self shine. Three minute meditation
Namaste - Laurie Ahlemann Please vist my blog at Yoga Teacher 411 |